Creating Lasting Relationships With The Law Of Attraction
It takes two people to make a relationship work. Most times each person in a relationship will find everything else wrong with their partner without examining their own short comings. Judging others is one of the things that destroy a relationship and creates more havoc than is necessary.
The law of attraction states that you attract the person that you either don’t want or that you want to have certain qualities. If you think on the things that you mostly don’t want in a relationship, then that is exactly you will get from your relationship. If you concentrate on the things that you want in a relationship and nurture those thoughts to bring you what you want, then that is what you will get.
Judgement of each other is one of the rules against the law of attraction. As soon as things begin to go wrong in a relationship, our little minds start to pick apart the littlest things that the other person is doing instead of finding out what our contribution was to cause the problems in the first place. This relationship is doomed if we take the step of judging our partner.
If, however, you look at the good things in your partner (an in most case, the good always outweighs the bad), the law of attraction will create more good for you and give you something to work with. No one can be perfect in any relationship and as long as the relationship exists, there will always be problems. Working around those problems is what the law of attraction offers to all of us if you play close attention.
You need to ask yourself questions that will help you to improve yourself in the relationship. You also need to work on yourself mentally and spiritually to bring out your inner self of unconditional love, which will only make you an example to your partner who will also want to do what you are doing when he sees an improvement in you.
You will attract him or her to you by your own actions of self development and this will change the entire scope of your relationship to make it better for both of you. If you judge, you will attract more judgement, but if you love unconditionally, you will attract more of that which you seek to make happen.
Your most challenging relationships are your master teachers. If you having a good relationship with someone, there is not much more to learn from that person except to keep the good. However, if you have a tougher relationship that requires unconditional love to make it better, then you are tested in how you react to saving your relationship. This gives you reason to want to become a better person if you want to make it work for you.
Most of us give up too soon on our relationships while reasoning that a better person is the solution. There are no better persons. This is an illusion of your thought. There is always going to be problems in every relationship as we established previously. It might be a different problem, but every problem requires a solution and the only solution for having a lasting relationship is to manifest love that has no conditions and let the law of attraction take its course.
Cheryline Lawson is the owner of www.thelawofattractinganything.com and writes articles and books on the subject.
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